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If you’ve got the hang of a basic blowjob but are keen to try some fab fellatio moves, get a load of these:
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1. For an interesting entrée, find the line that runs between his balls and start licking it from the lowest point upwards using a soft, flat tongue. Lick in a broad sweep all the way up the shaft of his penis, right to the tip. Maintain passionate eye contact while you repeat the lick nine or ten times, then zoom in on the tip for some focused lovin’ and lickin’.
2. Take one testicle into your mouth and hum, then repeat with the other one. The vibration effect will feel great. Or hold a vibrator against his balls while you take his penis in your mouth – but put it on gentle vibration unless you know for sure he’s into power tools…
3. When he’s semi-erect, pop a cock ring on the base of his penis and focus your tongue lashing on the tip. The cock ring makes him look and feel bigger and harder – which is great for the ego – as it stops the blood from flowing out. Don’t use it for longer than 20 minutes, though, as it won’t be fun for anyone if his willy goes numb.
4. Ask him to tie your hands behind your back, then offer your mouth to please, please him in a position of his choice. With your hands out of action, you’ll have to think out of the box (if you’ll excuse the pun) about how to cajole him to a climax. The light bondage will boost his excitement as it tips the balance of power in his favour.
5. Hold his penis firmly at the base of the shaft and open your mouth over the head. Now shake his penis from side to side so that the head slaps the inside of your cheeks – but for heaven’s sake keep it away from your teeth! He’ll love the noise of the slapping.
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6. Take one end of a filmy silk scarf into your mouth and use your tongue to swirl the damp, warm fabric over his erection. Blow on him through it. The wet silk against his skin will feel good. It’s a tantalisingly thin barrier between your fingers, mouth and his friend. Drape it over the head of his penis and through the fabric, flick and swirl the tip of your tongue around the base of his glans (head).
7. Find the super-sensitive frenulum – the strip of skin on the underside of the penis the where the head meets the shaft – and flick this with the hard tip of your tongue, or make fast butterfly-like flutter movements across it with your tongue tip.
8. Numb his glans temporarily with a tiny amount of gel that contains benzocaine or another mild anaesthetic, then watch the surprise on his face as the numbness wears off while you’re giving him oral and sensation floods back into his penis. Don’t lick the area too much or your mouth will go numb…which would be a real mood killer.
9. Deep throating – the act of taking all of his penis into your mouth – is highly overrated but he’ll probably still be impressed. The key is the angle of your throat. Kneel over him facing his feet, or lie on your back on the bed and dangle your head off the side with your throat and mouth in a straight line. Yeah, I know it sounds a bit gawky but trust me, he won’t be worried about how glam you don’t look. Try to relax your gag reflex (this needs a fair bit of practise). You won’t be able to do much except let him thrust, but hold the base of his penis to control the depth of penetration as it’s not too sexy choking on his chicken.
10. This final great trick increases the sensitivity of his head (which is the most sensitive part of the penis anyway). Use your hands to gently pull the penile skin taut to increase the glans’ sensitivity. To do this, encircle his penis with your fingers about two-thirds of the way down his shaft, hold firmly, and pull downwards. Then continue with some great mouth action and watch him shower you with his gratitude!
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Q:My new guy's penis is enormous, and my mouth is tiny. When I tried to give him oral sex, I practically choked. How do I do it without gagging? Please help!
A:It's very common for the gag reflex to kick in when anything — let alone your guy's well-endowed penis — is pushed to the back of your mouth. While you can control this reaction by relaxing, concentrating on your breathing, and getting into a position that puts you in control (like having him lie on his back as you crouch over his crotch), giving a great blow job doesn't require that you reenact a Deep Throat porn scene.
Next time you want to pleasure your man orally, start by swirling your tongue around his nerve-packed corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and gently sucking the tip of his shaft. As his arousal grows, lick the length of his penis, alternating between sweeping up-and-down strokes and circular motions. You'll really make his toes curl if you caress his balls as you tantalize his manhood with your tongue. Or, lick his testicles as you manually massage his shaft.
When you're ready to take more of him into your mouth, try this titillating gag-proof technique: Form a tube with one hand and put it against your lips. Then, wrap your mouth around his shaft and slide your mouth and hand up and down in unison (make sure he's well-lubed with saliva or water-based lubrication). You'll send him into an orgasmic tailspin if you use your free hand to rub his frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis) or supersensitive perineum (the area between his balls and anus) at the same time.
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The bottom line: Be as creative as you want — just don't use your teeth. As long as you've got a repertoire of mesmerizing mouth moves and erotic enthusiasm, I doubt your guy will even care whether or not you can fit "all of him" in your mouth.
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When my man comes in my mouth I always swallow. My technique is simple: I have my man put his cock inside my mouth as far as possible and give him a nice head job until his cock swells up and he can't hold it anymore and he comes in my mouth. There is no pulling his cock out when he starts to come because I want it all, every last drop of cum. After he pulls his hard cock out of my mouth, I show him his cum in my mouth before I swallow it. Sometimes I will spit it in my hand and then lick it off my hand, or spit it into my coffee cup - makes my coffee taste 100 percent better. One more thing, too - instead of jam or butter, I spread cum on my toast - delicious and no calories!
If you don't like to swallow, just ask your boyfriend if it's OK if you have a drink next to the bed. You can come up with an excuse like, "Giving blowjobs makes my mouth dry," or just say you like to have a drink afterwards. You could also tell him the truth, but you'll never know how he's gonna take it (it might be insulting). When you have just swallowed, give him a smile and wait a few seconds before reaching over to your drink to get the sperm-taste out of your mouth. Hardly any man will notice.
You never know what a guy will taste like, so every time I give a blow job, I tell the guy if he wants me to swallow, to put his hand over my mouth after he cums and make me swallow it. No matter how bad it tastes, even if he cums a lot, I always swallow doing it this way. I may feel like barfing, but the feeling passes when a man's strong hand covers my mouth and his other rubs the front of my neck and forces me to swallow his cum.
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Don’t get us wrong: Men love all oral sex. If you’re down there, he’s in heaven, period. Still, don’t you want to blow past his expectations and introduce him to levels of bliss far beyond what he dared to dream could exist? Totally doable — just take a tip or two from this flipbook, which will get you using your tongue, lips, and, yes, even teeth on his prime real estate in ways you’ve never imagined (nor has he, which is really saying something). Ladies, prepare to plaster a perma-grin on his face and yours.
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Believe it or not, men can get a little lonely up there. So, make sure to glance up and hold his gaze every once in awhile. Add a devilish gleam in your eye, and he’ll be in heaven.
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Let’s face it, your mouth can only cover so much ground (the average penis is five to six inches, while the average mouth is only two to three inches — you do the math). That’s why the very best oral sex usually incorporates some hands-on action to pick up the slack. So, feel free to mix-and-match the moves in this chapter with those in chapter 11. Or make an O with your hand, place it on your lips, and move them in tandem. This will create the illusion that you’re taking him all in while in reality it’s more like three-fifths. Pretty good trick, huh?
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Ever wonder why they’re called blow jobs when you’re actually doing the exact opposite — sucking? Anyway, for anyone who can’t quite figure out how to do it, suction is created by placing the back of your tongue on the roof of your mouth then sliding it backward to create a vacuum. Now, we all know suction’s a crucial ingredient to oral sex, but keep in mind, we can only really suck on the first inch and a half. Take in any more, and your tongue must drop to accommodate it, nullifying those Hoover-esque effects. Don’t worry, though — many men find too much suction a turnoff. To find out how much he likes, ask him to suck on your fingers with the intensity he’d like you to use down yonder. Then fine-tune your technique accordingly.
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Granted, there are plenty of reasons to not like giving oral sex. That doesn’t mean you just have to sit there and suffer, since there are plenty of ways to circumvent these unsavory aspects. For example, pounce right after he’s taken a shower. Ask him to trim his pubic hair, or offer to do it yourself. If you’re worried about your gag reflex, you can prevent this by making sure you’re in control of the motion, not him. And if swallowing isn’t up your alley, have him stage his release on your chest, which is nice eye candy for him and won’t muck up your hair.
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Chances are, you’re already using your tongue in all sorts of tantalizing ways down below. But here’s one thing you probably haven’t considered: using the underside of your tongue instead. Its soft, silky texture will feel especially sublime on the frenulum — a super-sensitive spot located below the head of his penis in the center of the underside of the coronal ridge. Here’s what to do: Holding the base of his penis and resting your chin on the underside of his shaft for stability, place the underside of your tongue on this sweet spot and quickly swipe it from side to side like a windshield wiper. Precise as surgery and yet very potent, this move is a great way to kick things off.
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Oral sex: how to give the best blow jobs
Most men love oral sex. Some men even prefer e a blow job to full sex. So as oral sex is such a big deal for the boys, we ought to know how to do it well.
What is oral sex (blow job)?
Fellatio, or a blow job, is an oral sex act which involves stimulating the penis using the tongue, lips and mouth. It gives him intense sensations and can bring him to orgasm.
A 69 is a position combining fellatio and cunnilingus (female oral sex). Once a taboo act only seen as something done by prostitutes, oral is now a standard part of foreplay for many couples.
How to give oral sex:
As a rule, oral sex should mimic the movements of full sex penetration. Take his penis into your mouth, tuck your teeth behind your lips to avoid grazing him, and stimulate the movement of sex with an up and down motion while simultaneously sucking.
One thing men don’t like is mechanical oral sex, so vary your rhythm, speed and intensity. Gently caress his testicles and then upping the pace for a few strokes.
Lick, suck and play with his erect penis using your tongue. To make sure you’re hitting the spot, watch and listen to his reactions. Don’t be shy about asking him how he likes blow jobs and oral sex to be. All men are different and he'll be thrilled that you want to know exactly how to please him.
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Oral sex tip #1: Sensitive areas
To make him go weak at the knees with a blow job, linger on the parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensistive - the tip, glans (head), testicles and perineum (between the testicles and the anus).
He’ll also appreciate lots of attention around the shaft (the bottom bit that links his penis to his body).
Oral sex tip #2: Use your hands
If your partner's penis is on the large side you may find it more than a mouthful. Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but don't worry you're not expected to be able to take it all the way down.
As we're not all sword swallowers or deep throats, a simple trick is to use your hand and your mouth.
Use an edible lubricant to get things going moving your hand from the shaft (bottom) to the tip until he's really hard. Then add your mouth, sucking down as your hand moves down and up as your hand come back up.
Alternate your hand & mouth blow job technique as well, try stroking down as your mouth moves back up to vary the sensations.
Oral sex tip #3: Involving other areas
Oral sex is really just about using your mouth so you're free to involve other parts of the body as well.
Try gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time. Lightly kiss his inner thighs. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line between his anus and testicles). All added together he'll be putty in your hands... or mouth.
Oral sex tip #4: Hot and cold, fizzy and still
Blow jobs and oral sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.
Take a mouthful of warm tea. Swill it around your mouth and swallow. Take your man's penis into your mouth for 20 seconds. Take a mouth full of cold water. Swill it around your mouth and swallow. Resume the blow job. The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him.
You can also try champagne, fizzy water, ice cubes and ice cream.
Oral sex tip #5: Get saucy
Some women can't bare the taste of their man in their mouths which makes oral sex difficult and not very enjoyable.
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While performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off.
Oral sex tip #6: Gagging
Gagging during oral sex is almost unavoidable. We've all done it. Don't be embarrassed. He'll just think you're gagging because he's so massive and if you actual tell him that then you'll give him one enormous ego boost to boot.
If you find yourself gagging often then try using your hands as well.
Oral sex tip #7: Ejaculation
When he starts to come, there's the question of whether to swallow or not. You don’t have to: each to their own.
If you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, don’t force yourself to swallow: it won’t make it any less pleasurable. Just make sure he withdraws in time!
Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.
Some men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their partner but make sure you've agreed to this first - it's entirely your choice.
Oral sex tip #8: Ejaculation - improving the taste
Some foods and drinks do have an effect on the taste of your guys ejaculate.
Ejaculated semen is mostly seminal fluids which includes fructose (sugar) protein, and tiny amounts of various minerals and nutrients. Although it tastes slightly acidic it's actually pH7 - neutral.
Alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine all pollute semen and make it worse in taste. The day after a binge it's probably best to avoid blow jobs altogether.
Vegetarians have better tasting sperm but too much cauliflower, broccoli and asparagus can have a seriously negative impact!
Avoid garlic and onions as they effect the taste thanks to their high sulfur content.
To improve the flavour try eating plenty of fruits that are high in natural sugars, parsley, wheatgrass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon.
Oral sex tip #9: Sexually transmitted diseases
Note that AIDS, hepatitis B, fungal infections and other STDs can be passed on via oral sex and blow jobs. If you’re unsure of your partner's past, use a condom.
Mouth infections can also be transmitted via oral sex.
You cannot get pregnant via oral sex and blow jobs.
Oral sex tip #10: Overcoming reservations
Some women are repulsed by oral sex and blow jobs and don’t like the idea of putting their partner’s penis in their mouth.
Try having a shower together as part of foreplay so that you can give every nook and cranny a good clean!
If you still don’t feel comfortable with giving oral sex, remember there’s no point forcing yourself: he’ll sense you’re not happy and won’t get as much pleasure out of it.
The goal is shared pleasure and excitement. Talk to him about it and you might find you change your mind in time. Blow jobs should be a pleasure for both of you.
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rst of all, let me establish the most important aspect of giving a blow job -- confidence! A lot of women are self-conscious when it comes to giving head. While I can certainly understand being unsure of yourself, that's something you have to get over quickly in order to improve. Even if you're not the world's greatest, if he's getting a blowjob, he's pretty much already on Cloud 9. I'm not saying there's no wrong way to give head, because there is. I'm just saying that if his dick is in your mouth, for him, things are already off to a great start.
If you still feel unsure, tell your partner that you're nervous. Most guys will be not only understanding but turned on by what they'll see as your "innocence." They will be more than happy to guide you to what they like.
Also important is something that many people overlook -- position. Both partners have to be comfortable, which admittedly can be difficult at times. Also, the right position can give your man the perfect view of your handiwork. Here are a few positions that work for us:
1. He kneels on the bed or sits cross-legged, leaning back so I have plenty of access. I lay propped up on my side on the bed. This puts me in the perfect position in case he wants to finger me.
2. He sits on a low couch or chair and I sit on the floor, leaning into his legs to support myself.
3. He stands up and I kneel on a pillow.
4. He lays down (with his head propped with a pillow) and I lay between his legs with my arms propped up.
A few more somewhat silly things before you begin: Taking frequent breaks is not only a necessity for you (unless you enjoy lockjaw and chapped lips), it can also allow him to last longer and build up a more explosive orgasm. Don't feel bad if you need to stop -- just don't do it abruptly. Second, you may want to have what to me are a few sex "essentials" on hand: water/drink, lip balm, lube, and of course, a hair band to hold hair away from your face.
I like to start off by gently holding his cock in my hand (hard or not) and slowing kissing and licking just the head. The point is to establish to him that you love his cock would love nothing more than to give him a blowjob. At this point, you can also stroke him very, very gently. The lightest touch can feel really good as he's anticipating things getting more intense.
Before he starts to get too hard, I also like to put his entire cock in my mouth. My boyfriend's cock is quite large so this is often the only way he'll feel the whole thing in my mouth! Even if you can "deep throat" your boyfriend, he may still enjoy the sensation of having his cock in your mouth when it's soft.
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As he gets harder, I stroke him with a little more pressure and continue licking, but this time going all the way up and down the shaft. The wetter this is, the better, so don't be afraid to slobber. Sounds gross, but it's true. Once he's gotten pretty hard, I move on to literally sucking his cock. Rather than just moving your mouth up and down his shaft, actually sucking on it (very gently at first) feels more intense for him. Another important tip is to try not to let his penis out of your mouth completely. As you pull him back out of your mouth, leave the head of his penis in and continue stroking and sucking until you go back down. Again, don't be too self-conscious. Sucking, slurping noises are a definite possibility, and trust me, most guys eat it up. Along those lines, also don't be afraid to do anything else that comes naturally, such as making noises or touching yourself. It turns guys on to know that sucking on his cock turns you on.
I mentioned earlier that my boyfriend's cock is big. I do deep throat him from time to time, but I have to adjust to it and I can't do much with his cock once it's in there! He generally likes it better when I have less in my mouth but can do more with it. I place my hand over the base of his shaft (the part my mouth isn't covering) and stroke him constantly whatever I'm doing to him with my mouth. So, just remember that you can still give good blowjobs even if you're not a sword swallower.
As I'm sucking him and stroking him, I continue to make things interesting with my tongue and hands. My tongue flicks the head of his penis as I suck it and swirls around his shaft as I suck up and down. With your hands, you can stroke his penis or do whatever he normally enjoys as far as balls and all that good stuff are concerned.
Here are a few more techniques we both like:
1. The "melting ice cream" method -- It's just how it sounds. I think I read it in a women's magazine and it really works! Just pretend like his cock is an ice cream cone and it's a hot summer day. It's melting fast and you've got to eat it all up. Then, just treat his cock exactly the way you would the ice cream. Another option here of course is to actually put whipped cream on his dick and then get every last drop off.
2. The "confused cock" method -- I made up the name, do you like it? We discovered this by accident but it drives him crazy. While sucking on his cock in one direction, I will gently stroke his cock the other direction, then switch. So, for example, I'll suck back gently on his cock while stroking it downwards towards his stomach, then switch, moving my mouth down towards his stomach and pulling my hand up on his cock toward my mouth.
3. "Vacuum" -- You got it - extreme sucking. My boyfriend likes to let me suck as hard as I can while he gently pulls back. Not every guy is this into having his cock pulled so don't do this with no warning.
When your partner is ready to come, hopefully he will let you know (or you'll be able to tell by his body language and sounds.) Girls have different feelings about cum. Some love it, some hate it, and some are indifferent. In my experience, it is worth it to me to swallow. For most guys it is an extreme turn-on; the perfect way to end the blow job. It only lasts a few seconds, so if the taste is unpleasant, you can just tough it out and then discreetly drink some water. However, don't force yourself to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If you still want to provide a mega turn-on for your partner but don't want to swallow, there's a slightly less conventional option. As your partner is coming, take him out of your mouth and stroke him quickly (maintaining the same speed of your blowjob) and let him cum over your chest and stomach. Some people find this odd but to others it's a big turn-on. If you do want to do it, you might want to discuss it with your partner first just so he's not confused when the time comes.
Of course, this is what my partner and I enjoy and not everyone else will, but hopefully these ideas will help you break out of a blowjob rut or become more confident about giving head. Above all, get a partner who makes you feel confident and secure, and you'll feel brave enough to try anything that turns them on.
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Oral Sex: Fellatio
How To Give A Blow Job & Do It Well
Along with tips on how to best ask for a blow job.
Explore not only how to give a great blow job but how to ask for one as well. Learn blow job techniques that will excite any man as well as things that you should avoid when giving a blow job. Find out what the number one blow job tip is when it comes to great oral sex.
Whether you want to call it giving head, a blow job / BJ, oral sex, going down on... there are many wonderful benefits to performing this delicious sex act. In this article we will review blow job instruction with great tips to help you make it amazing whether you give or receive.
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Fellatio
The term fellatio comes from the Latin word fellare, which means to suck. In fellatio the head and shaft of the penis are licked, kissed and sucked.
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How To Ask For Blow Job
The best way to ask for a blow job is to work on seduction. Tell your special someone how much you desire them and that you have been fantasizing about how it would feel to have their mouth and tongue sliding up and down you. The key point here is that that you flatter them with your desire not a demand or an awkward question. You can also start with giving oral sex and then asking for reciprocation. If you have been together a long time, you can make it more pleasant for them with sharing flavored lubricants and special oral sex toys discussed and shown later in this article.
Let's first discuss the most important ingredient to giving fantastic fellatio... ATTITUDE.
For one, it can provide the one giving the blow job with an sexually empowered sense of control and with specialized techniques, there are infinite possibilities to be creative and provide amazing pleasure. Particularly when performed with enthusiasm it can not only be incredible to the receiver but to the one providing it as well even if the techniques are not there. Combine them and you will be on your way to being a fantastic lover.
If you approach this as something that disgusts you, or even a chore then in my opinion, you shouldn't bother doing it. No matter how many cool tips you know, you will never give really good head with out desire driving it. Sex should be fun and exciting to each partner no matter what you are doing.
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Several women I know have told me that they will exchange favors with their husband when he desires fellatio. For example, one friend told me that her husband will do the dishes for a week just to get a blow job. I have to say that if that is the kinda of sex life you have... you are missing out on some serious passion. But do not panic, no matter where you are in your relationship you can change it for the better.
Don't ever underestimate the power of your perceptions. If you perceive any sex act, including fellatio to be dirty, repulsive, or a chore then it will be.
My husband and I always say that desire starts in the mind and honestly I see nothing more important to a good sex life than your attitude and perception toward it. That is why I always suggest communication as it provides a way to talk about what really turns you on. It also gives you the opportunity to work through old belief systems about sex that no longer serve you and end up holding you back sexually.
You don't want to make the mistake of thinking that figuring out what the best techniques are will make you the best lover. Remembering that attitude will make up for any lack of technique is probably the best sex advice you'll ever get!
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To those wanting to give incredible fellatio, let me give you a quick example of what I mean about attitude.
Negative Attitude
Imagine that you and your lover have found yourselves in the bedroom. He is laying on the bed and had negotiated a blow job. So, you walk over, pull his pants down quickly to get right down to business. You open you mouth and move your head quickly up and down. Like a robot, you have no variation and exhibit no passion. After all, you want to get this over with and are just trying to get him to cum. Before you began you instructed him to tell you when he was going to orgasm because you want to be warned. After all, this is something that you are going to want to be prepared to avoid. When he finally cums you jerk you face away and let him do so all over himself. You run to the bathroom to rinse out your mouth and brush your teeth and do not return as you have things you have to do.
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Positive Attitude
Imagine that you and your lover have a moment of flirtation. You move closer to your lover, moving him down on the bed and smiling as you do it. As he lies there, you slide down to his pants, you seductively remove them. You give him looks as though you want to devour him. To you, he looks like candy just waiting to be tasted. You lick and run you fingers all over his shaft and balls not neglecting his inner thighs and abdomen area. You reach to your sexy stash and grab some warming, flavored lubricant so that you can slowly pour it over his cock as though you are pouring chocolate syrup over a sundae. Lightly licking his balls you use your hand to firmly grasp the base of his shaft and slide you hand up and down his shaft. You take your time as you approach the head of his cock and give him an even more firm squeeze as you get there. As things progress, you move your mouth to the tip of his cock and lick while teasing him with your seductive eye contact. As you slide his hot, hard cock into your mouth you let out a little moan and start grinding your genitals on his leg. This turns you on and you want him to know it. After fucking him with your hands and mouth, while giving him dazzling visual displays of rubbing his cock all over your face; you feel him ready to release his desire. You fuck him now deeply into the back of your throat until he comes so hard that his legs press against your head from the intensity. Afterward you move up to him and embrace him telling him how hot that was for you.
Striking Difference
Are you seeing a difference here? Even if you decide to give a 'quickie' blow job, your attitude allows you to be the best he's ever had. Men, just like women, want to feel desired, so to make him feel like orally pleasuring him is repulsive to you is certainly a 'blow' to his ego. Show him that you desire him no matter what sexual activity you do and you will really make it fantastic.
Why Men Love it So Much
Many men LOVE receiving oral sex and this is true for a few reasons. It of course feels good, but it also makes them feel desired. Often times, men are made to feel ridiculous for focus on his penis, but women are no different. We worry about our push bras and how big our but looks in an outfit. We also enjoy intimate contact like snuggling and of course we also enjoy sexual stimulation.
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When you start doing things like negotiating doing the dishes for sex, you are downright insulting them. After all, how would you feel if someone told you that in order to be sexually intimate with you that you had to do the dishes first?
No wonder men and women often think of fellatio as something a bit dirty... we tend to make it that way don't we? Cleaning the dishes is dirty and undesirable and yet it gets compared to the equivalent of fellatio? We also often think of it as derogatory to the giver... yet in reality it is an opportunity to take control! I think when we take negative attitudes toward our sex life then the true beauty of love and sex is terribly belittled.
Even when a person chooses to be with a variety of partners while dating or through open relationships, we can really enjoy sex on a deeper level when we let ourselves truly BE with people. Being aware of the beauty of sensuality in our partner(s) and ourselves is what makes any sexual experience an amazing one. Isn't that true of anything in life? How often do we drive to work not even taking a moment to notice the beautiful sun shining down through the clouds and lighting the world up with its brilliance. How about how often we shove food down our throats without taking the time to really enjoy each morsel of what we are eating?
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The same applies to sex... when we are mindful of our partner(s) and our own needs, sensations, and emotions then you will be better able to truly enjoy what life has to offer when it comes to oral sex or any kind of sexual activity. Try it just once and I am certain you will be amazed at the difference. If you find it is still uncomfortable then you may need more than an attitude adjustment, you may need to explore deeper issues that inhibit you from enjoying your sexual experiences.
Important On Fellatio
You can get STDs (including HIV-AIDS) from giving oral sex.
You do not have to swallow or "deep throat" a man to give good oral sex.
What Is Cum (Semen)?
A man's semen is about the amount of a teaspoon and it is not unhealthy, fattening (the average ejaculation is approximately 15 calories) and it will not get you pregnant.
Deep Throat Or Not To Deep Throat
Often people think that someone highly skilled in the art of fellatio will not only deep throat, but will do it for the entire length of the blow job. Nothing could be further from the truth. Of course if you are comfortable with it then by all means deep throat him during the course of oral sex, but if you are not using other techniques with your tongue, lips, hands and fingers then you are probably giving a rather boring blow job. Also, the sheer fatigue that you experiences can change your attitude quickly so changing things up helps a great deal.
The pleasure from a blow job is created through deep throating is created by the uvula pressing on the frenulum which massages the corona. Translation- it is a snug, warm, wet environment and a most pleasurable place for a penis. The average depth of our mouth cavity is 3 - 4 inches and the average penis size is 5 – 6 inches, thus you can see the difficulty in getting a full penis in your mouth and down your throat.
This leads us to the breathing issue. If you are deep throating your partner, then you are most likely cutting off your air supply for certain amounts of time. Learning to breathe through your nose or taking breaks by using your hands is a good way to maintain the pleasurable flow of stimulation to his penis.
Gagging Remedies
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It happens to the best of us and the main thing to remember that psychologically you need to not panic. Panicking can cause you to vomit and that is the last thing you want to do.
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Gagging can be assisted through use of numbing agents like sore throat sprays and drops. You will want to be aware however, that using them may very well numb your partner unless he has a condom on. Also be aware that by using products with Benzocaine that there have been health issues tied to them so you may want to be careful using the often if at all.
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Because a blow job should not just be about up and down motions or even deep throating you can use your hands quite a bit to help you. Often times, when you squeeze at the base of the shaft while using your mouth on just the head and upper shaft you can create the same affect as deep throating. Rubbing his delicious cock on your face, neck and chest is also quite visually stimulating so do not forget to show him how much you are enjoying in addition to focusing on your technique.
Communicate
If he thrusts or pushes you down a bit onto him and you find yourself gagging, pull back up and pause to let him know that it is uncomfortable. Lovers that have been together for a long period can also develop a signal that just politely lets them know of this discomfort. If he does not clue in on this you can come up and begin using your hand to recuperate or let him know that you were beginning to hit the gag reflex a bit and you want to rest a minute while playing with his cock. He most likely will be happy that you do this because the last thing a man wants is for you to throw up on him because you were too worried that he would not understand that his penis is going to hit the back of your throat from time to time and cause a gag reflex.
If you really have an issue with gagging, let him cum elsewhere whether in a condom, in your hands, on himself, inside you (vaginally or anally), on your chest or neck as you revel in it. The best thing to do to make your intentions known is to make a comment before or during oral sex to let him know where you want him to cum. You can make this sound really sexy if you say it with passion. For example- "I can't wait to feel you cum in between my breasts, I want to rub it all over me!" Note the positive approach?
Body Strategies
Having him on his back allows you to better control his thrusting by using your forearms to push him down if he begins to thrust to a point that it is uncomfortable for you. You can also gently tug on his testicles as though you were pulling on the reins while riding a horse to let him know he needs to slow it down. Remember not to do this too hard, as you don't want to cause him pain, rather just enough to cause him to come back and allow you to avoid gagging.
Hand & Mouth
One of the best ways to give oral sex is to also include your hands. Any one that knows how to give a blow job well will tell you that the following technique is a must when your mouth is tired, your gag reflex is getting triggered or he is well endowed and deep throating is a challenge. The best of us get tired!
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Taking your hand, make a fist around the shaft of your lover's penis with your little finger resting on his pubic bone. Then at the same time take your mouth and go up and down the head and upper shaft of his penis while you go up and down with your hand at the same time. This gives the same sensation of you "deep throating" him (taking him deep into your throat). Adding different combinations with both hands, or your mouth make for creativity and fun!
Quick Fellatio / Blow Job Tips
The mucous membrane that is inside the mouth is similar to the lining of the vagina or anus and the moist slippery feel of the mouth and tongue on the penis can be extremely pleasurable. That is why fellatio can be incorporated as part of a couple's foreplay, meant to heighten sexual arousal, or it can be the main activity, meant to bring the man to orgasm. Remember, it does not have to be the finale.
The reasons that fellatio is generally more socially accepted are as follows-
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Fellatio between disease-free people does not in and of itself lead to disease.
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The major religions have relaxed their historical prohibitions about fellatio being sinful and unnatural.
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It is very pleasurable!
Be Careful
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Remember that just as you do not want pain or discomfort during this process, neither does your lover.
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Be sensitive to their needs and watch their body language for cues as to what is comfortable and what is not.
Be Clean
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Nothing like the smell of "ball rot" to turn off your partner. Unless they tell you they love it when you are sweaty and stinky, take a shower or take a warm washcloth and clean up not just your penis, but your balls and perineum area.
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You may even want to use it on your anus as your lover may like to give you a rim job.
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A really quick way is to use baby wipes. Strippers have been known to use them all the time for quick clean ups and you can too!
Pubic Hair Clean Up
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Giving a tug to the ol' short and curlies will help to loosen any hairs that are about to fall out and prevent them from going into your lover's mouth, which is not the most pleasant sensation.
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You can also shave or trim your pubic hair for a more tailored look and feel.
Oral Sex Toys
There are many types of oral sex toys on the market. Before you get any of them, make sure they are non-toxic as there are many products on the market today that contain toxins. We provide a great deal of education about this in our articles under our site.
There are two basic types of oral sex toys- 1) There are the sex toys and lubricants you can use while performing oral sex. 2) There are the sex toys that simulate oral sex such as the Sqweel Wheel. To view these types of products, see our Oral Sex Toy section below-
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Scientists call it fellatio. Guys who could give a damn about science call it a blowjob, a hummer, a pearl dive, etc. But no matter what you call it, having your partner go down on you is one of life’s greatest pleasures.
Sometimes, though, there are a few snags.
Unfortunately, Fellatio 101 isn’t standard classroom fare. It’s not even something the mother bird teaches its young. As a public service for anyone who has a few questions about the right techniques, here is a laundry list of tips on what guys look for — and require — in a good blowjob.
1.Don’t try so hard. Last year, my friend “Bridget” asked me why she couldn’t fellate her boyfriend to orgasm. My response? In a perfect world of Playboy and porno flicks, hummers lead to big, healthy orgasms. You know the scene: some tramp uses a pogo-like motion to deep throat her partner, only to be greeted by the requisite money-shot a mere seconds later.
Whatever.
I told Bridget to ignore the pot o’ pearls at the end of the rain-blow. Instead, I asked her to think of the hummer as the perfect pre-game warm-up. Think about it…What better way to prepare for the plunge than with a good wand-wash? Do runners break records without stretching? Do writers hand in first drafts? No. Like a good appetizer, I’ve found that a little sucky-sucky before the supper always makes for a pleasant dining experience.
2. Give yourself a hand. Guys spend years refining their “handy” skills before grabbing their first gobbler. And while the hand is neither moist nor equipped with a tongue, self-help is sometimes very satisfying. Therefore, I suggest women use their hands AND their mouths while orally pleasuring their partner. Ladies, the mouth alone cannot provide the surface penetration needed to excite the penis. Cover the tip with your mouth, making sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Swirl the tongue around the head and shaft. Then grasp your boy’s toy so that your forefinger is touching your lips. Using your mouth and your hands in unison, begin the up and down motion. Glance up and admire his smile.
3. Ignore the “spit versus swallow” argument. Some men SWEAR that sperm swallowing is really a test used to measure the amount of trust a woman has for them. I’ll probably lose my union membership for this, but it really doesn’t matter. If you can cause the eruption, you’re a goddess. Draw the pearly white lava and we will worship your volcanoes to no end.
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4. Bring the noise. Since “blowing” never really comes into play with a blowjob (well, for females, really), you’ve probably wondered where the term “hummer” comes from. Well, just like you ladies enjoy some good vibrations, we guys like the 1,200 beats-per-minute action, too. As you’re fellating away, hum a few bars from Warrant’s “Cherry Pie.” Okay, maybe a better song. In any event, vocal vibrations translate well to the penis. If you’re a real sweetheart, though, you’ll hum his favorite tune.
5.Don’t get all Hollywood. You’ve seen Kevin Smith’s “Clerks,” right? You remember the scene where America was introduced to “snowballing,” right? Forget that scene.
Obviously, no two men are alike. Different folks take different strokes — not to mention tongue patterns. If you’re really looking to deliver perfect oral pleasure, ask him to guide you through. It’ll open up your lines of communication, turn the sexual experience into a learning one — and give you an excuse to make some suggestions yourself.
Caution Alert
Just because a woman can’t get pregnant by giving head doesn’t mean oral sex is totally safe sex. Though the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases or HIV is much lower with oral sex than with anal or vaginal sex, there still are risks. To make oral sex as safe as possible, there are a few steps you can take.According to the STD Education Unit of San Francisco Department of Public Health, for maximum protection you should use a non-lubricated latex condoms without spermicide. If you don’t like the taste, try flavored condoms. If you really don’t want to use a condom while performing oral sex on a man, the STD Education Unit suggests a few alternatives.Avoid taking cum in your mouth or leaving it in someone else’s mouth. If you get cum in your mouth, spit it out.Avoid sucking if you have bleeding gums, sores, abscessed teeth, or have just gone to the dentist. These could make it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. Wait until they heal.
Do not brush or floss your teeth right before or after having sex. For fresh breath, try chewing gum or rinsing with mouthwash.
Look closely for sores or blisters on the genitals, mouth or lips. If sores or blisters are visible, avoid oral sex. Remember, though, it’s not always possible to see sores or blisters.
Avoid deep throating. This may irritate the lining of the throat, making it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body.
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